10 Mar


Photo Credit – All T

Breaking out of bubbles can be hard.  How do we break them and get outside?  I don’t have the answers for all of us, but I can share one of my bubble-breaking stories, because if we don’t start breaking bubbles, our future generations are going to be pierced by the World.  We have to get outside of our homes, our comfort zones, our shyness and share the Light.

Probably my biggest bubble that needed breaking was my job.  I began at the young age of eighteen, right out of high school as a clerk-stenographer.  That’s an ancient term for many of you today.  My boss would dictate and I took notes in symbols.  It was fun, and I was so good at it, but have lost much of that knowledge today.

 Back to the bubble….

I worked my way up in a time when women didn’t go to meetings, didn’t negotiate contracts, and sure didn’t have signature authority.  That big man that dictated to me kept pushing me and another woman, and I did not want pushing.  I was comfortable writing symbols and typing.  Well, eventually I was going to meetings, negotiating and signing contracts.

I spent over 43 years at that office.  Boring no – we were Navy, later Air Force and then Army so it was constant change, we were constantly learning, I knew my job and I loved it, but it was very high stress and more work than a human could accomplish.  My best friends retired, and I stayed on and stayed on and on and on.

God was ready to break that bubble, and I am so thankful He did, and so thankful I listened.  An Army Colonel asked me one day to give a year’s notice because he said with my experience it would take a year to replace me.  Not bragging because all I was was surely not me, but how God had made me.  Well, one day God spoke so clearly I knew it was time and early in November 2011, I notified our new Army Colonel I would be retiring the end of December.

Bursting that bubble was hard because there I was at the top, and I was Debbie and I was had a reputation of being smart and tough, and our customers liked me.  At school I was the kids mother.  At church I was the associate pastor’s wife.  At the nursing home I was Louise’s daughter.  You get the picture.  You’ve all had similar rolls.

Well the bubble was burst and I became a whole new person, and I love how listening to the Lord has changed my life.  How, you ask?

  • First. I was able to go to the nursing home and relax and spend quality time with my Mom who died two years later.  I got to sit there and read to her.  She loved it.  I could spend hours where before I was rushing by after a 10-hour work day and taking her dinner knowing I still had a 35 minute drive home.  RUSH. RUSH. RUSH.
  • Second. I began three months after retirement looking for a Bible study not at night at my church.  I wanted to be here with my husband and cook and clean.  HA!  Not cleaning as much as I wanted, but hey it’s much, much better than when I was working full-time and progressing each day.

Back to the bubble……..

  I found an on-line Bible study and joined and life has never been the same.  WHY?         Because I can’t get enough of the Word and studying everything I can.  I didn’t have       time before.  I was too busy and barely had time to study my Sunday School lessons or   prepare lessons because much of the time I was teaching four and five year olds.             Right now I am studying Leviticus and Hebrews with an app called First Five.   It takes   me about thirty minutes to do each morning.  I’m also doing a study by Wendy Blight   called I Know His Name about the names of God.

  • Third. I have met women all over the World.  Me, the introvert changing daily.  I love the community I have found in my Bible studies meeting hundreds of them at a retreat, and others that live in Texas and this week one from North Dakota stopped by and spent the night along with her hubby.
  • Fourth.  God put a fire in me to get to know my community better.   We go to church in the next town.  We know many of our neighbors, but not our community.  He said go and tell and show and shyly I did go get my fingerprints and the paperwork done and I substitute teach.  Not a day goes by that I am blessed by how I see Jesus in our schools.  Not a day goes by that I don’t get to share Him in subtle ways – some as simple as bless you and I hear kids chiming in over the classroom.  I have had opportunities over and over like playing a game of ABC and words that go with it and smiling as a child says church with the C, and Jesus with the J and God with the G, or in a high school talking about leadership and I get to share how I’m a leader in the World’s largest on-line Bible study.
  • Fifth.  I learned about special needs children.  I was afraid of them.  When I went to substitute teaching training they asked for volunteers.  NOT this woman, but the first day the phone rang I headed to school, called my husband on the car phone and I said, “I hope it’s not algebra”.  It was worse.  I walked in and they said I was in special needs and I honestly wanted to argue or run, and God said, “NO” “GO”.  I did and my life was changed.   I’m in love with those kids and what their teachers and aides do each day, and their precious families.  That next year, just eleven months later, we had a grandson born with a horrible skin disease, and God said, “see I was preparing you for what was to come”.  I could look and see and thank Him that as bad as Colt’s disease was that it was not as bad as a child that can’t see, or talk, or walk.
  • Sixth.  I am home when I want to be – well mostly.  Sometimes I want to be home, but a teacher calls and I go because it is a ministry.  It’s certainly not the money because they don’t pay well in my town.  All the towns around me pay better, but my mission is to my community.  I get to be home when our kids need us to keep the boys.  Both our daughter and daughter-in-law work from home so they need help a lot, and I love giving it.

I am so thankful that God burst my work bubble because as you can see I am out of that comfort zone.  I was doing lots of things for God, but I was not experiencing Him.  I am going and telling and doing and giving and showing compassion. I am growing  every single day in knowing and loving Him MORE.  There is so much more to life.  These grand babies are growing up faster than my kids. This morning as I sit here looking at pictures of the two-year old I was amazed at how fast he has grown.

God burst my bubble.  I’m praying that I can make a difference.  I’m bubbling over with joy.

I’m joining Suzanne Eller today and the theme is Breaking Out of My Bubble.



  1. Cindy March 10, 2016 at 10:52 am #

    Debbie, I am in my second year of retirement after teaching for 32 years. My identity had always been being “Miss Cindy” until it wasn’t. I was lost last year but I a. Starting to learn new things now, too. Your post touched my heart! Thanks for sharing your bubble bursting wisdom, Cindy


    • bloggerlovestheking March 10, 2016 at 3:27 pm #

      Cindy thank you so much for your comment! You blessed me. I blog hoping it will touch someone. Enjoy your retirement. I am so crazy busy right now with so many things to do.


  2. Crystal S. Hornback March 10, 2016 at 10:58 am #

    The the way you burst through that bubble and the beauty that God brought from your bravery! #livefreeThursday


  3. Debbie Prater March 10, 2016 at 3:24 pm #

    Debbie, it sounds like God has really been stretching you. That can be really challenging, but you can grow alot through these times, especially as you step into those new things. This past year, I’ve experienced new challenges as well. I’ve been taken out of my comfort zone and it’s been great.


    • bloggerlovestheking March 10, 2016 at 3:29 pm #

      Yes Debbie He has stretched me, and it has been challenging and beautiful. Thanks for stopping by Debbie, and I need to go email you. See so busy I haven’t gotten back to you.


  4. Stacey March 10, 2016 at 7:24 pm #

    I hope lots of people read the thoughts you shared in this post. Such wisdom and love here. 🙂

    Thanks for sharing with us at Thoughts of Home on Thursday.

    Liked by 1 person

  5. Kathleen Aherne (@CoolTweed) March 11, 2016 at 5:22 am #

    Thanks that was great to read and see how life changed for you. Two years ago God burst my bubble. I am so thankful He did. I don’t think I would have budged on my own so He got me moving.

    Liked by 1 person

    • bloggerlovestheking March 12, 2016 at 11:06 am #

      Thanks Kathleen for stopping by and commenting. Thankful for God’s bursting even when it hurts at the moment.


  6. krista March 11, 2016 at 1:12 pm #

    That was a really great post.

    Liked by 1 person

    • bloggerlovestheking April 10, 2016 at 7:58 pm #

      Thank you so much Krista.


  7. Karen Del Tatto March 11, 2016 at 1:19 pm #

    I enjoyed this post so much!

    I too was a stenographer, right out of high school. I tried to pick it back up again when I returned to work after 22 years of not being in the work force, but couldn’t remember any of it. The skills I learned with stenography are what help me now in my current job to take School Committee minutes via the laptop. I am able to retain and keep up with what is being said and type quickly.

    The Lord has broken my bubble several times throughout my life. I worked for many years in one job until my daughter was born; then I had my own business for 13 years; then I had a time of solely doing ministry work; and now I am a grandmother, blogger and part-time secretary to a School Committee. I think I thrive on change.

    But I will say, I never thought of it as God breaking my bubble to keep moving me in new areas of obedience. I love that analogy and that perspective. And I love the fact that we have a Sovereign Lord who is in control and knows the big picture. O what rest we can find in that.

    Thanks for sharing!

    Liked by 1 person

    • bloggerlovestheking March 12, 2016 at 11:10 am #

      YEA I am glad to meet another steno. LOL! Showing our age here Karen. We have a lot in common – grandmother, blogger and school system.


  8. A Well Styled Life March 11, 2016 at 5:11 pm #

    Such great wisdom and insight here! Just lovely and beautifully told. Thanks for joining us for Thursday Favorite things blog hop.

    Liked by 1 person

  9. Trena Balakrishnan March 11, 2016 at 11:18 pm #

    Thanks for sharing how God has worked in your life. Always great to see Him at work in our life. Found you on AfterMyCoffee.

    Liked by 1 person

    • bloggerlovestheking March 12, 2016 at 11:30 am #

      Trena thank you. I’m so glad He is always working in our lives even when we don’t see Him.


  10. Carol Cook March 12, 2016 at 2:36 am #

    You had a wonderful career and now you are enjoying a lovely retirement. Isn’t it lovely to do what you want each day!

    Thanks for sharing at SYC.

    Liked by 1 person

    • bloggerlovestheking March 12, 2016 at 11:31 am #

      It is lovely to do what you want each day Carol. So different than rushing out of bed and driving 45 minutes to work day after day. Thanks for stopping by and visiting.


  11. Ruth Campos March 12, 2016 at 9:36 am #

    I enjoyed reading what God has been doing in your life and through you as well. It’s such an adventure to follow God into the new things He has plalnned for us, though sometimes it can be scary moving into the unknown. Praise God for always holding our hand and leading us every step of the way!
    Thanks for sharing!

    Liked by 1 person

    • bloggerlovestheking April 10, 2016 at 8:05 pm #

      Ruth thank you so much for commenting. Thank you for all the songs you add on your blog.


  12. Andrea March 12, 2016 at 10:40 am #

    Thanks for linking up at EPFH! What a great story! I enjoyed getting a glimpse into your journey and how things have worked out for you as you trusted God’s guidance. Your post is definitely encouraging to me.

    Liked by 1 person

    • bloggerlovestheking March 17, 2016 at 8:21 pm #

      Thank you Andrea and thanks for the link-up.


  13. Carol March 12, 2016 at 12:16 pm #

    Debbie, I enjoyed reading your post. I retired a year and a half ago and like you I am more community minded. I am so grateful for this season of life when I can spend time with friends and family, building relationships.

    Liked by 1 person

    • bloggerlovestheking March 17, 2016 at 8:19 pm #

      Thanks Carol. I enjoyed your recent post on the visit and flower pictures. I hope I get to do that in Dallas SOON!.


    • bloggerlovestheking March 17, 2016 at 8:20 pm #

      Thanks Carol. I so want to go visit and take pictures like yours in Dallas.


  14. bettylouise31 March 12, 2016 at 5:24 pm #

    Your experience warms the soul
    Thanks for sharing

    Liked by 1 person

    • bloggerlovestheking March 17, 2016 at 8:17 pm #

      Thanks Betty.


  15. MaryHill March 12, 2016 at 9:09 pm #

    God’s will in your life is hard to see at the time, but He has us. I love that all worked out with you and God moved you to a new place to help others.

    Liked by 1 person

    • bloggerlovestheking March 17, 2016 at 8:07 pm #

      Thanks Mary.


  16. Dawn Boyer March 12, 2016 at 11:58 pm #

    It is a beautiful thing when the daughters of the King share their story and His part in it with the world. Thanks for sharing this at #GraceMoments this week.

    Liked by 1 person

    • bloggerlovestheking March 17, 2016 at 8:07 pm #

      Thanks Dawn for stopping by and thanks for the link-up.

      Liked by 1 person

  17. Nancy March 13, 2016 at 9:45 am #

    What a wonderful tale. Life sounds pretty exciting outside that bubble! Thanks so much for sharing your story.

    Liked by 1 person

    • bloggerlovestheking March 17, 2016 at 8:06 pm #

      Thanks Nancy!

      Liked by 1 person

  18. lauraingallsgunn March 13, 2016 at 7:22 pm #

    My eyes filled with tears on how God have given you heart for special needs kids. Your post was truly a joy to read and I hope that you will continue adding your ray of sunshine every week on Thoughts of Home on Thursdays.

    Liked by 1 person

    • bloggerlovestheking March 17, 2016 at 8:00 pm #

      Oh Laura you just blessed my heart. Thank you for stopping by and commenting. Made my day.


  19. Cameron March 13, 2016 at 11:22 pm #

    Thank you for sharing this story. Very inspiring!
    God bless!

    Liked by 1 person

    • bloggerlovestheking March 17, 2016 at 5:53 pm #

      Thank you Cameron. Appreciate you stopping by and taking the time to comment.


  20. Sandi March 15, 2016 at 5:43 pm #

    It sounds to me like God is doing wonderful things in your life. What a blessing you are to others!

    I guess one of my bubbles was burst when shy little me was put into a leadership role as music director at our church. You see, Hubby was the pastor and I was the quiet attentive wife. But we needed someone to lead music and He put me up on the platform in front the congregation to lead. I was totally out of my element. Although as a child and teenager, I always sang, I had gotten away from it while raising my family. It turned out to be one of the most fulfilling roles of my life. When it was time for us to leave that church, I really missed it. When God bursts our bubble it is always for our good and for His glory. Thank you for sharing and have a lovely week, my friend.


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    • bloggerlovestheking March 17, 2016 at 5:37 pm #

      Thanks so much Sandi and thanks for the link up. My hubby was an associate pastor and like you I was the quiet one. I’m slowing changing.


  21. kchripczuk March 15, 2016 at 9:24 pm #

    I’m always so thankful to see people continuing to grow and change through all stages of life. Thanks for sharing.

    Liked by 1 person

    • bloggerlovestheking March 17, 2016 at 3:50 pm #

      Thank you for commenting.


  22. Kelsey Tew March 16, 2016 at 12:30 pm #

    Thanks for sharing your story, this is beautiful. Living proof that though what comes next is unknown, there are always good things coming in the Lord. I was a substitute teacher last year and the job truly can be a blessing since you get to meet so many people.

    Liked by 1 person

    • bloggerlovestheking March 17, 2016 at 3:37 pm #

      Thank you Kelsey. He’s given me much more than I could ever deserve.


  23. swathi March 21, 2016 at 1:42 pm #

    Thanks for sharing your wonderful story to Hearth and soul blog hop. appreciate that.


    • bloggerlovestheking March 21, 2016 at 6:37 pm #

      Thanks Swathi


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