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Back To School Prayer

22 Aug

Back to School-3

As school starts back today I am looking forward to another year of being a light in the school system substitute teaching.  I had to take some time this morning to lift the staff and the children in prayer as they leave for school.

I am so thankful for another day and another school year, and don’t take a moment for granted.

Precious, Precious, Lord I come to you today just praising you for this new day and the new school year.  Father we are so thankful for every staff member, teacher, nurse, and coaches, our cleaning staff, cafeteria staff, and our wonderful bus drivers that spend their lives in the school system training up our children, and I am lifting each and every one up to you this morning that they may be a light in our children’s lives.  Father I pray for lives to be changed for your glory this year.

Father I pray our children will not be anxious for anything as they return to school.  I pray you will fill them with a desire to learn.  Father, bless them and protect them as they walk the hallways, sit in their classrooms and go to and fro their different classes.  May they fill Your presence today each time any thought of fear fills their minds.

Father I pray that You will direct them to meet friends that will be a good influence on their lives, and I pray that You place a desire in them to be a good influence on other students lives.

I pray You be there and fill them up with a love for who they are in You, and that they do not  compare themselves with others, but can find joy in who You created them to be.

Father teach them respect for authority, and teach them to be more like You.  I pray they will be a blessing to their teachers and staff.  May all they do be pleasing to you each day this school year.

Father I pray for protection for them this entire school year.  I pray they not be bullied, nor they bully others.

Thank You Lord for these precious ones You have placed in our hands.  My we not take that lightly as we send them off to school today, or as we lead them today.

In your precious name I pray, Jesus.  Amen.

Check out my free lunch-box notes here and here.  Here is a sample.

(Photo is a picture of an old desk that my Mom had.)



Palms Up

8 Aug


“What is holding you back from going deeper in your relationship with God?”  That is a question this week from Lysa TerKeurst’s book What Happens When Women Say Yes To God“.

What is holding you back?  Are you putting self before God?  Is it fear, intimidation, lack of confidence?  Could it be you are worrying about what other people think? Luke 9:26 (KJV)  reads “For whosoever shall be ashamed of me and of my words, of him shall the Son of man be ashamed, when he shall come in his own glory, and in his Father’s, and of the holy angels.”  Are your friends, co-workers or family holding you back?  What about those “feelings” and emotions?  Our walk with God should be one about faith, not our feelings, but oh those feelings get to me sometime and I bet they do most people at some point.  Feelings of “I’m not good enough”, “I am not pretty”, “I’m too fat”, or feeling we have failed an exam, feeling we have an illness that we do not.  And then there is comparison – comparing ourselves with others when we should only be comparing ourselves to our Lord.

How do we release what is holding us back?  How do we surrender and move forward with our palms up receiving all God has for us.  I started looking for scripture:

  • PRAYER – God wants to hear from us.  Hebrews 4:16 (KJV) “Let us therefore come boldly unto the throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy, and find grace to help in time of need.”
  • THANKING GOD – 1 Chronicles 16:8 (KJV)   “Give thanks unto the Lord, call upon his name, make known his deeds among the people.”
  • SEEKING FORGIVENESS AND FORGIVE OTHERS –      1 John 2:1 (KJV) “My little children, these things write I unto you, that ye sin not. And if any man sin, we have an advocate with the Father, Jesus Christ the righteous” and  Matthew 6:14 (KJV) “For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you.”
  • TALK TO GOD THROUGHOUT THE DAY  – 1 Chron 16:11 (KJV)  “Seek the Lord and his strength, seek his face continually.”
  • FASTING – Matthew 6:16 (KJV)  “Moreover when ye fast, be not, as the hypocrites, of a sad countenance: for they disfigure their faces, that they may appear unto men to fast. Verily I say unto you, They have their reward.”  
  • BIBLE STUDY – Psalms 119:11 (KJV)  – “Thy word have I hid in mine heart, that I might not sin against thee.” and 2 Tim 2:15 (KJV)  “Study to shew thyself approved unto God, a workman that needeth not to be ashamed, rightly dividing the word of truth.”
  • FELLOWSHIP – Acts 2:42 (KJV) –  “And they continued stedfastly in the apostles’ doctrine and fellowship, and in breaking of bread, and in prayers.”

Many years ago I wanted to lead women, but FEAR held me back.  I took women in our church to retreats out-of-town.  I bought videos and had women over for lunch and a video.  I had a fear of leading, of teaching and what others would think and speaking.  Those feelings of inadequacy and not being “good enough”.  Because of my fears and feelings I was withholding from God.

Last year I retired.    God brought me to Melissa Taylor’s On-line Bible studies, now Proverbs31.Org.  I got in the word.  The more I studied, the more I began to count my blessings, the more I was consumed with God – His truth, His handiwork, His love.  A short time later I was asked to lead and I wanted to but that fear came in.   I talked to my family and they encouraged me, and I prayed for some time and finally surrendered and became a leader.  The fellowship, the study of the Word, the prayers we share are just not explainable beyond being awesome and encouraging and soul filling – an infatuation with my Lord like I have never known.

I am a leader for the most awesome ladies I have ever met.  Our group is like a class-room full of sister – Jesus sisters.  My heart is full with the love pouring out of them for each other and me.  I asked them to share a picture of their palms up this week because that’s our hash tag for the week.  Look at that picture at the top at what they did.  WOW!!!!

”Have not I commanded thee? Be strong and of a good courage; be not afraid, neither be thou dismayed: for the Lord thy God is with thee whithersoever thou goest.” (Joshua 1:9)

It does not matter what we are withholding.  God will be with us and I found I did not have to know how to lead.  I found that God equipped me how to lead.

I find myself in God’s presence all the time!  How about you?  Are you withholding or are you in His presence?

#PalmsUp to receive all He has to offer and He will if we are obedient.



Cultivating A Heart of Prayer – The Gap – Week 4

26 Jul


This week I have had a hard time blogging.  Not sure why, but usually by Thursday I am finished.  Well, it is Thursday morning, and here I sit trying to think of how to write on the great topics suggested by our blog leader. Some of what I would like to write about, I can not because of the subject matter and the people I love who are hurting.  Honestly, I have been unable to come up with which subject in our prayer study to blog about, and what to say on any of the subjects so I am sitting here, thinking, typing and wondering  where this goes.

I thought about the subject of our study, Cultivating A Heart of Prayer, and I thought how we  sometimes shorten it to “The Gap”.  It is a gap between Melissa Taylor’s Online Bible Studies – the last one which ended in June and the next one which starts in August.  I know what gap means, but think I will look it up.  I googled it and found in “The Free Dictionary” several things that apply.  One definition was “a space between object or points”.  I have a subject, I have done the work this week, but the words are not coming.  But for some reason God has placed that word “gap” in my mind even though I have been in several gap studies before.

So, I sit here wondering about what has been missing in my prayer life and about that word “gap”.  I have my prayer notebook.   I write prayer requests.  I write specifically for my family and friends on what I am praying about. I get on my knees in tears some days so what is missing, is there a gap Lord?

I thought about an analysis we used to do when I was working.  It was called a “gap analysis”.  We would sit down and perform an analysis of where we are today and where we wanted to be at a certain point in time.  From that analysis, we would analyze what to do to get there.

I learned something really crucial this week that I have been missing when I pray and it just hit me it is the gap.  BAM!   So what kind of GAP analysis did we do these last three weeks –  our gap – God Answers Prayers?

We learned first to sit quietly before the Lord and really hear from Him.  We studied and searched scriptures and learned how powerful praying scriptures back to Him can be, and what I believe is the product of all our analysis.   We were encouraged to think of people, issues, relationships – things or giants in our lives and to choose ONLY one to bring before our Father.  That could have been a hard task and for some it was about what to choose, but immediately the Father placed an individual on my heart, someone I know and love, someone who has people all over the world praying for her and her family.  I can not go into details here about that person and that issue, but I chose her because she is one whom I love deeply and who shares her heart with me sometimes.

As I began the assignments, I was awed on Monday morning how fast God put that person on my heart-maybe it is because I have been praying so much for her.  So once I chose her, I began the assignment of five sections.  Actually it is similar to the gap analysis at work – choosing a person, thing, etc.  now and deciding ultimately how we are going to pray for them.

These were our sections (thanks Christa Hutchins)

Section 1 – A Promise to Claim – we left blank until we finished all the other sections.  I still have this section to finish.

Section 2 – Be Thankful –  as I listed all the things I am thankful for about that beautiful lady, and I thought about all the pain she has been through (doctors, hospitals, surgeries, medicines, fear, sadness, hurt), I was able to ask the Father to change me, to change me to be more of an encourager for people, to change me to have more of a hurting heart for people, to change me to be more like Him.

Section 3 – Areas of Struggle – I listed ways this family is struggling, if they have any wrong relationships with God or others and why this issue is a struggle for me.

Section 4 – First, Change Me – I looked at did my attitude need to change and what harmful thoughts or attitudes do I have that are different from God’s view.  I also looked to see if I had been approaching this issue in the wrong way and had I contributed to the problem with wrong attitudes or actions and what God needs to change in me to bring about resolution.

Section 5 – Blessings – What does this person need or desire in their life?  How could God bless them so that they are drawn to Him?  How could this issue be a blessing to you and others?  What would be the perfect outcome that is consistent with God’s Word and His plan for your life?

The very second day of this assignment there were two miracles from God.  I will not list those either but oh how I wish I could.  I shared privately with my prayer group what God had done.  As I evaluated me and He began to change my heart, and I shared my heart with someone else, that person, in turn called me an hour later and said  that God burdened her heart after we had been together that morning sharing our hearts about our Jesus sister and He asked her to do something that would bless four families.

God has taken this pain and blessed many lives this week, mostly mine and I believe I am going to see others changed in the coming months.  I learned  that God truly answers prayers when we humble ourselves, evaluate ourselves and spend time with Him.   GAP – God answers prayers!

So what has God taught me this week?  He has taught me there is more to prayer than I could have ever imagined.  He taught me as I sit quietly with Him that first day and really listened with an open heart for Him to guide me as to what I would write down in all those sections.  He taught me the missing “gap” is focusing more intently on how I pray.


20 Jun


Has there been a time in your life when you could not find the words to pray, when you were so emotionally overcome by a situation that you could not even utter a prayer, and just so overwhelmed and perhaps even angry at God?  Tracie Miles says “we have all found ourselves in a pit at one time or another.”

I remember one time in my life when I was in one of those deserts, one of those pits where I found I could not pray.   I did not understand how something so bad could happen to someone so in love with Jesus, and I am so ashamed to say that I was angry with that thorn and I wanted it removed and the doubt, tears, and all that came with it.   I wanted to pray at times, but I could not get the words to come.  I know during those times that my God cares, and He is interceding for me, but nonetheless it hurts when you know you need to pray but you can not utter the words.  I find it scary that “He knoweth the secrets of my heart.’  Psalm 44:21b (KJV).  In Psalm 139:2  (KJV) it also says,  “Thou knowest my downsitting and mine uprising, thou understandest my thought afar off.”   Did you know Jesus knows us inside out?  Yes we may hide to others what we are thinking or feeling, but we can never, ever hide our thoughts from Him.

He knows our thoughts, he hears our cries, and carries us through those heartbreaking times.  Romans 8:26 is   comforting to me because I know God is standing in the gap for me and you.  God desires to intervene and he will intercede .  Our prayers, and our cries are heard by Him.  He sees our tears too and hurts with us.

I  believe the enemy will try his best to keep us from praying.  Read this quote from Beth Moore, “What victory the enemy has in winning us over to prayerlessness. He would rather we do anything than pray.”  WOW!  But thank God that it is He who is in control .

This week in Stressed Less Living in Chapter 11, we studied how we can reset our lives when we come to the end of of our ropes.  As I studied those steps I realized at times I have gone through all of them and sometimes more than one at once.  These were the steps that Tracie Miles revealed:

  1. Realign your life to God’s word.
  2. Recognize your need for God’s help.
  3. Adjust your focus to God, not your circumstances.
  4. Be filled with the Holy Spirit.  (Remember the one who’s praying on your behalf)
  5. Be faithful in your prayer life.
  6. Believe God is Who He says He is

While I can improve in all these areas, the one that spoke to me  was #3.  I need to adjust my focus to God and not  on my circumstances.   It is hard at times to not focus on the negative.  Stuff going on in life can just get you down.  The loss of my Mom this year in February was much harder than I ever dreamed.  Going to her house now each week to mow and try to get it cleaned out and empty both hers and Dad’s “stuff” to sell – well let’s just say it has been heartbreaking with all the memories.  I find when I focus only on the negative happening in my life that it makes things so much worse and I could easily stay and wallow in that pit.  But, if I focus on God and all the blessings in my life, it does bring peace.

So how do I adjust my focus to God and not all these negative circumstances, hurts and pain.  One way that God showed me this week was when I jump in the car to leave Moms is to turn my radio up and sing with 94.9 KLTY or put a good CD in like  Big Daddy Weave and I can sing Redeemed without missing a word (love that song) or this one “Every Good Thing” by The Afters because it will make you and me worship.   Even if I do not know the words I can let that music blare.   Another thing a sweet Bible study friend shared with me this week that, like me, she wakes up during the night with thoughts of her mother.  Last night she said I came to mind and she prayed for me when she woke up.   Sooooo when I wake up again with thoughts of Mom, I know now that instead of feeling sorry for myself, I will turn that around to reflect on Him and to reflect on Linda and lift her in prayer as well as all of Group 31 and our leadership team.  I will also focus on all the precious memories of Mom and not the pain of her being gone.  FOCUS – adjust my focus to God and not my circumstances and me, me, me – but HIM!

So how about you?  Will you share how you get through the  hurts and pain, thorns and pit in your life, or one of the steps above that you need to tackle to reset your life?

48 hour Joyful~Praying~Thankful Challenge

28 Feb

Yesterday Melissa Taylor gave us a, “48 hour Joyful~Praying~Thankful Challenge” based on I Thessalonians 5:18 KJV. This week’s reflection verse:

“In every thing give thanks: for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you.”

ALWAYS Joyful. ALWAYS Praying. ALWAYS Thankful.

I needed this challenge and I accepted that challenge. Through so much pain the month of February – primarily the death of my Mom, but also 4 friends and our Middle School Asst Principal’s husband being one of those making the national news as he was shot at a gun range, and our daughter not being able to conceive – well it has been a traumatic month, and now dealing with cleaning out a house of collectibles and family and some things I would like to share but out of privacy and love I won’t.

Am I up to the challenge – YES! I am up today praising my Savior for ALL that is good. The good that Mom is no longer suffering, the good that I have to spend days and days with my sisters to clean out the house and so far we are loving and hugging and doing things together and in agreement, lots of moments with my husband ministering to me and loving on me – he closed his shop last week to stay home with me on Saturday, and on Sunday after church he planted trees at our house in memory of Mom and Dad and my Father-in-Law.



Yesterday I headed up to school to take a blessing jar to one of my bosses, our Asst Principal in the death of her husband.



Guess what joy showed up for me at school. I had been out, the kids were waiting and saw me and said we have a surprise in our room. Here it is.



Do you see that ladies! There is ALWAYS something to be thankful for, there is ALWAYS something to praise Jesus for and ALWAYS be joyful if we stop and praise. Never stop praying, never stop praising, even through your tears.

And next Tuesday, what GLORIOUS PRAISE and JOY – I am going with my daughter-in-law and her Mom to her doctor’s appointment to hear my first grandbaby’s heartbeat.

J O Y – Jesus – Others – You


Jesus Joy – Have you ever heard of that? I have in sermons, devotions and studies. I want Jesus Joy all the time, not just sometimes. I want it in those times when I feel hopeless, in those storms of life, and in trials. I want to take the focus off me so that it is all about Him – Jesus, and through that J O Y I can love on others and their needs.

LASTLY, but all so important I PRAISE God that He placed me in Melissa Taylor’s Bible Studies last year knowing how I would need these women and these groups to love on me.Thank you God and thank you Melissa Taylor Online Bible Studies ( – now Proverbs 31 Online Bible Studies) and all your staff for your love and the JOY I can have because of you through all circumstances if I stop and reflect on whose I am. I am a daughter of the King and He loves and cries with me through all my pain and all my joys. And He is the King of my JESUS JOY!

Thank you Melissa for your heart. Thank you for the most beautiful reflection verse that is now underlined in my Bible with the words penned in “Mom, Let.It.Go, Melissa and 1st grand baby written beside it.”

And now the challenge for me personally…………….

Debbie, always be joyful. Debbie, never stop praying. Debbie, be thankful in all circumstances. Debbie, this is God’s will for you. Debbie belongs to Christ Jesus.

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